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The Future of Down Syndrome

I’ve sat in front of my computer screen debating just how to start this topic, or whether I even should because I’m about to ruffle some feathers. But this blog isn’t here to magically align with everyone’s beliefs, and I refuse to shy away from controversy just to avoid offense, so I’ve decided to power through and get my thoughts down here. It’s not to make myself feel better, but to educate the public about what I see as an emerging civil rights issue, and one that affects my family deeply. You see, I am and always have been pro-choice, but everything I thought I knew and believed in regarding a woman’s right to choose has been turned on its head since entering the Down syndrome community. I know to most outsiders this may seem like a strange connection, but abortion and Ds are closely intertwined and becoming even more so with the advent of noninvasive prenatal testing. When I was pregnant with both my boys, I remember being offered first trimester screening, which inclu

I Might be Mediocre, But at Least I'm Honest.

Being a parent makes me mediocre at everything, even parenting. It’s something I’ve known for a while, but this is the first time I’m making the confession public. And I would argue most parents aren’t very good at much else either, because being a parent is tough, especially a working parent, and once the day is over and the kids are tucked in bed, all I really want to do is drink a glass of wine in my pajamas and watch mindless TV. Being a parent also makes me a vidiot. And a late-night drinker (although “late-night” for me is 9pm). I guess my attempt to be my best self takes a backseat to making sure my kids’ needs are met; it doesn’t really bother me much because I am happy and my children are in good, albeit sometimes frazzled hands. So why is it that we parents feel the need to hide our realities from the world, especially social media? Check any mom’s Instagram or Facebook feed, including my own, and it looks like we are running a regular Montessori. The kids are smilin